Showing posts with label Article by Sandeep. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Article by Sandeep. Show all posts

Monday, November 23, 2020

 MONEY made it all


Never thought it would play such a huge role in life. As i put all my savings in house building process, and even half of my OD amount in that which still not filled. My intension was right to build a beautiful house for us where we all can reside peacefully but mom arrogance and thinking of superiority complex makes it worse. They cannot tolerate that we enjoy in front of them, don't do work. It starts from the morning where she shouts and knock our door to wake us. It's actually a bad habit as i am not alone. I know like sanskari wife get up early even before mother in law but you have to understand that she is not a house wife neither illiterate nor  low cultured. They belongs to much higher and sophisticated family, very educated and polite. You can simply judge by their talk. 

                                  After marriage its impossible for me to give any more penny to family as i have to do lot of savings for me and for my family and future. That is one of the main cord of dissent which hurt them badly why he is not listening to me and giving us money even 5k (Which mom said many times quarrelling with me) And Secondly their rude behaviour, for every work she don't like and want to teach us and supervise us, let it be us or say in polite way with love and empathy. She was angry why i doing her work, So what i am supporting her in every path of life its my responsibility and i love to help us. We tried to make our parents happy but they are not. They have all mean minds, firstly not accepting us with full open arms...

Thursday, February 21, 2019

WHAT'S YOUR LOGIC

logical thinking


Think Before You Think... ????

In mind thousand thoughts comes to us, every small aspect and all useless.
If we count and consciously think its all trivial things. We should skip all unwanted and illogical thoughts from brain then their comes we can focus on main problems and try to get the solution.

Few steps to conquer your mind over illogical thoughts:


  1. Give them the priority based on the amount of trouble causing you.
  2. Try to find out the main reason that causing it, 
  3. Ways it can be solved, whats in your hand, what you can do it to get it over.
  4. If you don’t get any idea, ask or suggest with someone close who can help you in that regard or ask for some advice from you friends.
  5. Sit somewhere alone and analyse the thoughts, you are alone self sufficient to get the solution. 
  6. Don’t fear try to do different things, but you must have a bit of confidence in that. If you fail it will be learning, that why you failed and that steps can be taken later on and if you succeed it will boost your confidence.

Personally I prefer to "Sit With Yourself" is the best way to get rid of any unwanted and typical situations. 


It is too crushingly important. You have to learn to sit with yourself. There are so many things being taught. We are told to love ourselves first and that no one can love us unless we do this, but when do we listen?
Being alone has always been one of my greatest, underlying fears. In fact, it was all consuming in extended periods of my life. I have stayed in relationships and in friendships with people simply because they were company, a place I could use to escape from myself.
 It is much easier to submerge ourselves into the muddy waters of others than to wade through our own. So I drowned myself there, constantly prying open the eyes of those around me while simultaneously shutting mine.
But I needed to fall. I needed to stop the chase; and stuck floating through my rabbit hole, I forced myself to figure out these questions. Who was I? What did I want and what did I need ?
I had to learn that sometimes love will never be enough, especially if it’s the kind you just settle for. Especially if it’s used to complete you. You have to learn to complete yourself.
I had to learn that when we feel something, even when it is negative, even when it hurts so bad that its nauseating, strangulating, we have to allow ourselves sufficient time to feel it. We have to soak in it, relish in it. And though it always seems never-ending, through it we are becoming. We have to let ourselves not be cucumbers but little shriveled up pickles of emotions that prove that we are alive- and thriving. 
You have to learn to sit with yourself. Young adults are consistently brainwashed by the thoughts and ideas of their parents or their TV screens or the advertisements thrown at them daily.
 The real issue is that some people do not even notice it. They just glide through the motions of things. Just tell themselves they’re okay. They never really sit with themselves. They never figure it out. 
What a terrible, terrible way to exist. What a horrible flat line to ride. We cannot let that die. My life changed forever when I read those words: “I had to sit with myself.” But I changed them again slightly. I told myself I had to learn. 
I’m telling you — you have to learn. Because it is not easy. But it’s essential. It is crucial. It is the only way you’ll ever make it through this hell on earth. Learn to sit with yourself. Learn to love yourself first. You are the only you in the world, and when you think about that… Really, think about that… That’s Surreal and boost you up.

Article By Sandeep

Monday, June 12, 2017

MUSLIMS ARE NOT TERRORISTS



As we all know India is the largest democracy in the world, India basically is a Hindu populated country. Muslim population consists about 15% of total population i.e. (180 Millions) We used to be a large country which later divided into 3 parts as Pakistan, Bangladesh and India himself. As British people (Divide and Rule policy) divide us based on religion. It was in way back 1947, till then we people hate each other (Muslims hate Hindu’s and vice versa.) We already fought 3 wars among us. Even if you ask today the opinion of Indian people I think majority of people will say they hate Muslims. Even my parents they cannot see them in good eyes for different reasons.  Mainly due to terrorism. As most of the world knows that Pakistan and POK (Pak occupied Kashmir) had terrorist camps from where they get training and spread into different parts of the world. And religious reason is this that We Hindu worship Krishna our supreme god who’s dear is cow, so Muslim people kills them in their festivals and eat. Generally Muslims in India live in very poor conditions and in very dirty way as they pet hen, ducks and goats. Even till now we have reservations for them by the Indian Government in every sector as they are minorities. Have Aligarh Muslim University and 5-10% reservation in government enterprises. It’s pity that they even find it hard to get a rent in Metro cities. And in histories it’s evident that they even kill their parents and brothers to get the throne or the kingdom. So for that reason we generally have hard time to trust them. But I guess this all is changing now due to globalization.

We had A.P.J Abdul Kalam Azad who was our President and is a Muslim, He is my Idol and we all Indian Praise him for his work. He is a scientist (Missile Man) before him also many Muslim resides in prestigious posts. We all love to watch the films of Salman Khan, Shah Rukh Khan (Both have idol in Madame Tussauds Wax Museum) in UK. Katrina kaif my favourite actress and Saif Ali Khan all are Muslims and ruling the Bollywood.

And my best friend is a Muslim, I must mention his name- one is Abdul Momin and the other is Giyas Uddin Mondal.  Abdul and I only had one year interaction when we studied together in coaching. I was in trouble one year ago, I urgently need 15,000 INR. I just asked for his help and without hesitation he gave his one month salary to me. Till now I have not returned his money fully. I send him 5000 in the month of September and second instalment last week of January. I borrowed this money last July and still I need to pay him 5k. While returning 2nd instalment I said to him, please check your account whether you received it or not, he just said I don’t need to check, you just send that’s all. That’s called friendship he has so much trust on me. I guess we have not met for more than 1 and ½ years. It may be possible that I just embezzle the money and never return him. As he don’t know where I live. Just has my phone number and friendship on fb. But I truly value those who are such. We saw many movies together, the first one was “Sawarriya”  I guess. We even celebrated 31st Dec and meal together and he stayed the night in my house. Just imagine in this modern world where if someone give you 10 INR he thinks when he will return my money and my friend gave me 15,000. Day before yesterday, one of my friends needed some money and he asked me for help as his salary is due later this month. I went there and asked how much? I offered INR 2000, he said No..I just want 500 INR and he thanked me a lot because he may not expect from me, because now a days help is surprising. I said its ok, I also tends toward friends than anyone if I need some help. We were also friends from last 6 months, and I also only have his contact number. So that’s all faith and believes. I have many friends, but I never asked any help from them as I know the answer. They are selfish and mean. When I visited to my friend house Giyas I stayed with him for 2 days and received a great hospitality. So I must say Muslims friends help me more than any Hindu friend of mine.  

We have dispute over Kashmir Issue, that’s why Pakistan send militant in India to kill innocent people.
I remember when I was young about 12-13 years old; our Sanskrit teacher told us why it’s all happening.
Those who are terrorists they are generally illiterate, narrow minded people and unemployed. They all do this for money and religion “Jihad” without understanding the purpose of Islam. They are extremist people who ready to blow away themselves and kill others. And the terror mind easily indulges them in such activities and due to few of them the whole Islam is blasphemy. Because whenever there is terror attack the suspicion goes to terrorist groups and they also take the responsibility for the attack which mostly based in Pak. Like in India when they strike at Taj Hotel, Mumbai (26\11) in year 2008, killing 164 people and wounding at least 308. Ajmal Kasab was caught alive and all others were dead. He belongs to Pakistan. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2008_Mumbai_attacks Even Osama Bin Laden who attacked World Trade Centre was killed in Abottabad, Pakistan. After that America tighten the security and imprisoned many Indians and Muslims and people throughout the world in the name of security. They strip search and tease people. They want all facilities to be provided to them as they belong to developed and stronger country. They can spy and tap phone to anyone and no one there to say anything. US is not so clean as we see from outside. They have their own interest in every field.

So for that reason we cannot blame the whole Muslim community, even in Pakistan children live in the shadow of fear they can be killed any time by Taliban. They are not allowed to go to school; you all know what they do to “Malala Yousafzai” so more than us they are seeing the terrorism. Their life is unbearable. Suppose I am illiterate and unemployed, and if someone pay me just $1000 and tell me to transport a parcel or package from Delhi to Mumbai, I will do it for money even I know that it may contain drugs etc or something which is illegal to carry or just for $500. News were there that Kashmiri people are brainwashed and by alluring money they were recruited into terror groups and make them to fight against own people of the country in the name of “Jihad”.  Don’t blame any Muslim for that.  I am Hindu by birth, I can be changed to Muslim it’s not a big deal or may be Christian. It happened when British people ruled India; to increase the population of Christian they convert Millions of Hindu’s to Christian forcefully. So just growing beard you cannot be true Muslim, Islam is one of the tough religion to follow. They do 5 times prayer a day and during ROZA they kept fast for whole 1 month and so many other restrictions to follow.  

What I mean is that terrorism has nothing to do with religion, its global phenomenon. We also have many Muslim countries like Indonesia, Malaysia, U.A.E, Kuwait, Qatar and so many. They have good infrastructure, facilities as like any of the European countries. Their all people are educated and they know the meaning of religion. In no religion it’s written to kill other or harm other, it’s the mentality of the people which they do and heart others for their benefit. India also ruled by hundreds of Muslim rulers in past and they do it effectively. They created Taj Mahal, Lal Quila, Quitub Minar, Gol Gumbaz, hazardwari palace and thousands of things which are the epitome of strength and productivity.

And basically we all are fool, who believe in religion. We all are created by the same god and we selfish people start saying I am Hindu, you are Muslim, and you are Christian etc. We divide ourselves based of color, cast, creed and boundaries. They are also people like us having good hearts and feeling. Lets spread the message of love and peace. So what we need is that we must support each other to remove the blot over our society or on a particular religion. And we must not blame Muslims for terrorism. We must educate and grow hand in hand in doing so and make this world a better, healthy and happiest place to live.


Notion: Whatever I wrote it’s my personal view, I don’t intended to hurt anyone’s feeling. I may be wrong in my points, so don’t take any personal. I don’t differentiate between any religion, cast or country.

                                       Article By Sandeep Chowdhury

LIVE WITHOUT EGO





We human being are full with ego. Once who acquire car, big flat or houses or possess wealth, we develop ego that we have everything we want. We forget that we were one of them. Who just develop into a beautiful human being. Why to hate anyone who is disabled, blind, deaf, dirty, filthy and awful in their look. Why cannot we behave normal as we do with our level of society? They also need love like you do. They also have desire who may be they never fulfill in this life. At least you can console them and be a part in their sorrow.

Have you ever imagined who you are? You are not better than a dustbin, you know why? Just look, what comes out from your eyes, nose, ears, mouth and skin and not to mention the lower body part (Which is especially for that purpose) Is something wonderful comes out? “NO” Even dustbin is better than you and our body excrete dirt every time. So why we call ourselves superior, it’s only due to that we have “BRAIN” Does we use our brain for good use? Again answer will be “NO” We are jealous, Hippocratic, liar, cheater, do fraud, break many faith and promises. We don’t have sympathy and respect for each other than hatred. We all want to grow just by pulling others. Everyone wants to see himself on top. No one is ready to compromise. But why? Do they think just by helping other or bowing their head they will be lowered. Now truth doesn’t exist. I guess no one want to tell the truth. Now a days its sin to say truth. We developed from Stone Age to machine age. With this we developed so much but not the humanity. 

Every country is in the race of acquiring hi-tech technologies. Having atomic bombs. Ready to fight with any country. We all people do just show off. Actually nothing to show in a good light. Due to technologies we are now producing babies in tube (In-vitro fertilization), having GM (Genetically Modified) food which affecting our bodies in such a way that we are going to see its side effect very soon. We are now very mush playing with the nature by making roads, huge buildings, tunnels, mining. I know this we all do with the name of development. Just look out the figures how much species of plants and animals we have lost in the past few decades and still losing. The climate is changing so fast that we can only imagine what will be our future in next few decades. Atlantic is melting and due to global warming, everything is reduced like the production of vegetables and plants. 

That’s why we are now depending upon energy drinks, high protein medicines and other supplements which provide instant energy as soon as it reaches to the body. Now we don’t have time to cook food, just eating so much of junk food which only leads to obesity and body full of diseases.


It’s high time to go back to nature, which keep calling us. Everything should be balanced. Even nature does by its own way. He does earthquakes, floods, tsunami, drought etc. So it’s only possible if we remain in harmony with nature in peace and sustainability. And of course by respecting each other :)

                                   Article By Sandeep Chowdhury

 MONEY made it all Never thought it would play such a huge role in life. As i put all my savings in house building process, and even half of...