MONEY made it all

Never thought it would play such a huge role in life. As i put all my savings in house building process, and even half of my OD amount in that which still not filled. My intension was right to build a beautiful house for us where we all can reside peacefully but mom arrogance and thinking of superiority complex makes it worse. They cannot tolerate that we enjoy in front of them, don't do work. It starts from the morning where she shouts and knock our door to wake us. It's actually a bad habit as i am not alone. I know like sanskari wife get up early even before mother in law but you have to understand that she is not a house wife neither illiterate nor  low cultured. They belongs to much higher and sophisticated family, very educated and polite. You can simply judge by their talk. 

                                  After marriage its impossible for me to give any more penny to family as i have to do lot of savings for me and for my family and future. That is one of the main cord of dissent which hurt them badly why he is not listening to me and giving us money even 5k (Which mom said many times quarrelling with me) And Secondly their rude behaviour, for every work she don't like and want to teach us and supervise us, let it be us or say in polite way with love and empathy. She was angry why i doing her work, So what i am supporting her in every path of life its my responsibility and i love to help us. We tried to make our parents happy but they are not. They have all mean minds, firstly not accepting us with full open arms...

IS KADAR

IS KADAR

PYAAR EK THOFA HAI
SADIO SE BEKARAK HAI
JISE PASAND AAI APNAI
NA PASAND WO SARMAI

#Sandeep

WHAT'S YOUR LOGIC

Think Before You Think... ????

In mind thousand thoughts comes to us, every small aspect and all useless.

If we count and consciously think its all trivial things. We should skip all unwanted and illogical thoughts from brain then their comes we can focus on main problems and try to get the solution.

Few steps to conquer your mind over illogical thoughts:

1. Give them the priority based on the amount of trouble causing you.
2. Try to find out the main reason that causing it, 
3. Ways it can be solved, whats in your hand, what you can do it to get it over.
4. If you don’t get any idea, ask or suggest with someone close who can help you in that regard or ask for some advice from you friends.
5. Sit somewhere alone and analyse the thoughts, you are alone self sufficient to get the solution. 
6. Don’t fear try to do different things, but you must have a bit of confidence in that. If you fail it will be learning, that why you failed and that steps can be taken later on and if you succeed it will boost your confidence.

Personally I prefer to "Sit With Yourself" is the best way to get rid of any unwanted and typical situations. 

It is too crushingly important. You have to learn to sit with yourself. There are so many things being taught. We are told to love ourselves first and that no one can love us unless we do this, but when do we listen?

Being alone has always been one of my greatest, underlying fears. In fact, it was all consuming in extended periods of my life. I have stayed in relationships and in friendships with people simply because they were company, a place I could use to escape from myself.

 It is much easier to submerge ourselves into the muddy waters of others than to wade through our own. So I drowned myself there, constantly prying open the eyes of those around me while simultaneously shutting mine.

But I needed to fall. I needed to stop the chase; and stuck floating through my rabbit hole, I forced myself to figure out these questions. Who was I? What did I want and what did I need ?

I had to learn that sometimes love will never be enough, especially if it’s the kind you just settle for. Especially if it’s used to complete you. You have to learn to complete yourself.

I had to learn that when we feel something, even when it is negative, even when it hurts so bad that its nauseating, strangulating, we have to allow ourselves sufficient time to feel it. We have to soak in it, relish in it. And though it always seems never-ending, through it we are becoming. We have to let ourselves not be cucumbers but little shriveled up pickles of emotions that prove that we are alive- and thriving. 

You have to learn to sit with yourself. Young adults are consistently brainwashed by the thoughts and ideas of their parents or their TV screens or the advertisements thrown at them daily.

 The real issue is that some people do not even notice it. They just glide through the motions of things. Just tell themselves they’re okay. They never really sit with themselves. They never figure it out. 

What a terrible, terrible way to exist. What a horrible flat line to ride. We cannot let that die. My life changed forever when I read those words: “I had to sit with myself.” But I changed them again slightly. I told myself I had to learn. 

I’m telling you — you have to learn. Because it is not easy. But it’s essential. It is crucial. It is the only way you’ll ever make it through this hell on earth. Learn to sit with yourself. Learn to love yourself first. You are the only you in the world, and when you think about that… Really, think about that… That’s Surreal and boost you up.

Article By Sandeep

FOREVER LOVE IS PURE

Love is always true and pure

It’s beyond someone’s imagination

It’s so infinite and supreme

Everyone try to reach its prime

It gives chance to everyone

To reach in depth and prove

That its not sophisticated and rude

Just need a gentle care and true

It’s the involvement of feelings

So deep rooted and fulfilling

Understanding makes it prosper

Fulfilling all desire i prefer

Emotions are strongly attached

Whether you live separate or together

In your happy or gloomy days 

It will ever remain possible prospect

Don’t ever bring your ego in between

That will rust and made soil in no time

It’s so fragile as well as so tough

Can hold your soul after million years gone.

( I hope you like it, Please encourage by sharing :)

Poem By : Sandeep

NOT ACCEPTED AT ALL

 

What happened to humanity ?
 Why someone try to kill own ?
Those who protect and save
From the infiltrators side border

Why are you getting brain washed ?

To kill your protectors who are also 

Sons, brothers, husband and father to someone

For your safety always ready with gun

How can you even think going

against the nation which feed you ?

Against the nation which gives you identity

So many memories spent with beautiful family

When you ever thought of killing people 

Without caring of himself getting killed ?

It’s a bloody game and total sin to kill

You will never get “Jannat” but hell

No religion teach us to harm other

Giving others tears you cannot be happy

Making so many families life miserable

Their tattered heart giving omen innumerable

TOI 

 Poem by :  Sandeep

YOU ARE ONLY MINE

You are only mine

From the day i saw you

My heart is restive

To see you obsessive

Your gaze is what i need

To make me stabilise 

Cannot look away for a minute

Promise to keep you in safe limits

We will make our life loveable

By respecting each others view

Making happy by every possible means

Giving rooms for a lot of dreams

Always want to see you smile 

Thats my gift from god all time

You have a noble heart to love

Always keep me closer and above

I will always have faith on you

Hold your hand in dim and hue

Will see the world together

Make our memories beautiful treasure.

Poem By Sandeep

PROMISE ME

Promise me, you will never cry

Promise me, you will go ahead

Just forget me now

I was your beautiful past

That you never came across

I will always love you

Though you cannot see

As you are bounded in my love

So helpless and defeated

I want to make you free

I want to let you go

To achieve your desire

To follow your dream

Because I believe in you

And have faith that

You will return one day

Just for me!!!

Poem by Sandeep